The reason why it is so hard to ask for help is because ( I have established ) no matter how much you trust or think the person you are asking is just good hearted - they can always come back and throw the fact that you needed help back at you if the mood strikes them. Sometimes even when you don't ask and you think your friends are just being nice, which is why they are your friends to begin with, something happens to make them want to hurt you. Whether it is your fault or not no amount of apologies is going to be enough to make that feeling of betrayal go away.
How do the words "I love you"" turn into " how can I hurt you" so fast? The things you tell your friends are things you wouldn't tell anyone else - this is what makes them your friends. The premise of a friendship should be trust and that should mean that even if the relationship changes or fades away - you can trust them with your inner most thoughts and secrets.
The end of any relationship is always sad and maybe it does hurt - but is that a reason to betray what the friendship once meant?
Well people are people - choose your Friends wisely and always guard your heart is the only advice I can think of to make life better - but I will not take my own advice because that is no way to live. No one can find love or friendship if they have their heart locked away.
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